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16 Self Care Tips for Brokenness

Brokenness- Quora defines it as “a response to being hurt so badly that the only way to protect yourself from more pain is to emotionally detach from everyone and everything.”  Life sometimes is HARD and our emotions are Real.  No one is immune from experiencing disappointment, sadness, anger, fear, and brokenness.  There are a few things you can do when you are “feeling broken.”   

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” Albert Einstein

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Here are a few self-care tips to help you be in control of your emotions instead of your emotions being in control.

1. Go for a walk.

Most people know that going for a short daily walk is one of the best forms of exercise. When you are feeling down it is even more beneficial. If you can, go into a natural environment with plants and birds. Can you think of such a setting not? What do you notice first? The different shades of greenery, the fresh smell of country air, the sounds of birds, or the sunlight shining through the trees? Make it real by taking a short stroll.

2. Listen to positive upbeat music.

Music can shift a listener’s state within moments. Its effect can be nearly magical.  Listen to music you haven’t heard in ages or tune into positive dancing music something that uplifts your mood.

3. Open yourself to discovering something new.

Read something (printed, not online) different than what you would normally read. There are a ton of different types of magazines can you get these days. Visit your local library or browse through a magazine rack.  Pick up or buy a magazine you wouldn’t normally buy. You may discover something wonderful.

4. Find something to laugh at.

Laughter is one of the best ways to lift your spirits. Find a humorous book, or watch a comedy. Even better, try to learn a few new jokes and tell them to others. 

5. Simple breathing meditation.

Breathing meditation is a great exercise that you can do anywhere.  Simply allow yourself to sit comfortably with your back straight. Now close your eyes and become aware of the flow of air into and out of your nostrils. That’s all there is to it. Do this for 10-15 minutes. Notice how pleasantly surprised you can be at how you feel afterward.

6. Doodling for the fun of it.

Most people can remember when they were young and used to doodle for hours. Kids love drawing silly little pictures. Drawing is not just for kids or artists.  Get some pens, pencils, crayons or whatever you have and just draw for the fun of it. Notice how your state of mind shifts.

7. Talk with someone who cares. 

You are not alone.  Everyone has felt broken and talking with someone who cares about you can be the support you need during this time. 

8.   Think of others less fortunate.

The fact that you are reading this article suggests that you are probably much better off than most people on this planet. At times this may be hard to believe, but if you can read and have access to the internet, just those two things alone mean you are better off than most people in the world.  There are many human beings that barely have access to the basics of survival. There are people in lots of pain. Allow your compassion for them to grow.

9.   Do something nice for someone else.

And it doesn’t cost a thing and it uplifts you.  Just a friendly greeting or compliment to the cashier who is checking you out at the grocery store or the server at the restaurant.  Sometimes just saying hello first.

10.  Declutter and organize your space.

When you are depressed and broken sometimes you don’t feel like getting out of the bed much less making it.  But if you can declutter or organize something small like your closet, your desk or room, it gives you a sense of accomplishment.

11.  Watch what you eat.

Caffeine, sugar, process foods can affect our emotions, sleep, and mood. Try to limit your intake.  Foods that help boost your mood are proteins like, eggs, poultry, seafood, tofu, and low-fat Greek yogurt. Vitamins D3, B-12, and fiber.  According to Healthline.com “there’s a clear relationship between food and your state of mind.”

12.  Try to get sleep.

Sleep is a major factor when it comes to how it affects your emotions and not getting enough sleep can cause health issues.  Most adults need 7 to 9 hours per night and that varies from person to person.  If you’re not getting enough sleep try to squeeze in a nap.

13.  Drink plenty of water to stay hydrated.

Not drinking enough water causes dehydration which leads to a lack of energy, confusion, and irritability.  Health authorities commonly recommend eight 8-ounce glasses, which equals about 2 liters, or half a gallon. This is called the 8×8 rule and is very easy to remember. 

14.  Take 60 seconds and think about what you’re grateful for.

Instead of thinking about the bad in your life, take 60 seconds and think about all the things you are grateful for.  Write down the things you are grateful for and take several 60 seconds breaks throughout the day.  

15.  Make your Instagram account a happy place.

When you are feeling blue, go to your Instagram account and view your “saved” photos of puppies, kittens, or any photos that take you to your happy place.

16.  Write down the good you have done.

Write down the challenges you have overcomeand things from your past that you are proud of. 

These are all pretty simple. There’s nothing profound or life-changing, but when you need to be in control of your emotions these may be just the thing you need. Putting simple ideas, methods, tools, and techniques into action will help you achieve change quickly and easily faster than you imagine.

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Party’s Over: Unraveling the Mystery of Hangxiety

“Hangxiety” is a term used to describe the feelings of anxiety, unease, or nervousness that can occur during or after a period of heavy alcohol consumption, particularly during a hangover. While it’s not a formal medical term, it does reflect a real phenomenon experienced by many individuals.

The science behind hangxiety involves several factors:

  1. Alcohol’s Effects on Neurotransmitters: Alcohol affects the levels of neurotransmitters in the brain, including serotonin and gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA). Serotonin is a neurotransmitter associated with mood regulation, and alcohol can temporarily increase serotonin levels, leading to feelings of relaxation and euphoria. However, as alcohol levels decline, serotonin levels may drop, contributing to feelings of anxiety and dysphoria.
  2. Alcohol Withdrawal: Hangxiety can also be a result of alcohol withdrawal symptoms experienced during a hangover. As the body processes alcohol and its effects wear off, individuals may experience symptoms such as sweating, trembling, increased heart rate, and feelings of anxiety.
  1. Disrupted Sleep: Alcohol consumption can disrupt sleep patterns, leading to poor-quality sleep or difficulty falling asleep. Sleep disturbances can contribute to feelings of anxiety and irritability the following day.
  2. Dehydration and Electrolyte Imbalance: Alcohol is a diuretic, meaning it increases urine production and can lead to dehydration. Dehydration, along with the loss of electrolytes such as potassium and magnesium, can exacerbate feelings of fatigue, weakness, and anxiety.
  3. Impact on the Amygdala: The amygdala is a region of the brain involved in processing emotions, including fear and anxiety. Chronic alcohol consumption can affect the function of the amygdala, potentially leading to heightened anxiety responses.
  4. Psychosocial Factors: Hangxiety may also be influenced by psychosocial factors such as individual personality traits, coping mechanisms, social environments, and the presence of underlying mental health conditions.

It’s important to note that while alcohol may temporarily alleviate feelings of anxiety in the short term, excessive or prolonged alcohol consumption can exacerbate anxiety and contribute to the development of anxiety disorders over time. If hangxiety or alcohol-related anxiety becomes a frequent or concerning issue, seeking support from a healthcare professional or mental health provider is advisable. Additionally, practicing moderation in alcohol consumption and prioritizing self-care strategies such as adequate sleep, hydration, and stress management can help mitigate hangxiety and promote overall well-being.

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Your Fork: Friend or Foe to Your Feelings

Ever experienced a sudden shift in mood after indulging in your favorite comfort food? The connection between what we eat and how we feel is a complex yet fascinating one. In this article, we delve into the intriguing world of how certain foods can significantly impact our emotional well-being.

Get ready to uncover the science behind why that bowl of leafy greens or decadent square of dark chocolate might just hold the key to a brighter, more balanced state of mind. From exploring the gut-brain connection to discovering the power of mood-boosting superfoods, embark on a journey that promises insights, strategies, and a newfound appreciation for the profound influence our diets have on our overall happiness.

The Gut-Brain Connection: How Your Digestive System Impacts Your Mood

Our digestive system is not just responsible for processing food; it also plays a crucial role in shaping our mood and emotional well-being. The gut-brain connection, known as the enteric nervous system, communicates bidirectionally with the central nervous system, influencing our thoughts and feelings. Research suggests that a healthy gut contributes to better mental health by producing neurotransmitters like serotonin and regulating inflammation.

Furthermore, disruptions in gut health have been linked to conditions such as anxiety and depression. By nurturing our gut with probiotic-rich foods like yogurt, kefir, and kimchi, we can support a flourishing microbial ecosystem that positively impacts our mood. Maintaining a balanced diet with plenty of fiber from fruits, vegetables, and whole grains is key to promoting gut health and fostering a harmonious relationship between our digestive system and brain.

Serotonin and Dopamine: The Happy Hormones

Serotonin and dopamine are neurotransmitters known as the “happy hormones” due to their role in regulating mood and emotions. Serotonin helps to promote feelings of well-being and happiness, while dopamine is associated with pleasure and reward. Both play a crucial role in maintaining a positive outlook on life.

Consuming foods that support the production of serotonin and dopamine can have a direct impact on your mood. Foods rich in tryptophan, such as turkey, nuts, and seeds, can boost serotonin levels. Meanwhile, dopamine production can be supported by foods high in tyrosine, like bananas, avocados, and eggs. By incorporating these nutrient-rich foods into your diet, you can enhance your brain’s ability to regulate mood and experience greater emotional resilience.

Foods That Boost Your Mood: A Guide to Nutrient-Rich Options

When it comes to enhancing your mood through food, incorporating nutrient-rich options can make a significant difference. Foods high in omega-3 fatty acids, such as salmon and walnuts, have been linked to lower rates of depression and anxiety. Additionally, dark leafy greens like spinach and kale are packed with magnesium, a mineral known for its calming effects on the nervous system.

Include vibrant berries in your diet for a dose of antioxidants that can combat oxidative stress and inflammation in the body, ultimately benefiting your mental well-being. Legumes like lentils and chickpeas provide a steady source of energy due to their high fiber and protein content, helping stabilize blood sugar levels and prevent mood swings. By prioritizing these nutrient-dense foods, you can nourish both your body and mind for optimal emotional health.

Mindful Eating: How Slowing Down Can Improve Your Emotional Well-Being

Embracing the practice of mindful eating involves savoring each bite, appreciating the flavors and textures, and truly engaging with your meal. By slowing down and paying attention to what you are consuming, you can enhance your emotional well-being. When you eat mindfully, you are more likely to make healthier food choices, leading to a positive impact on your mood and overall outlook on life.

Take a moment to pause before diving into your meal. Notice the colors on your plate, inhale the aromas, and chew slowly to fully experience the taste sensations. Mindful eating not only nourishes your body but also nourishes your soul. It allows you to cultivate a deeper connection with food and promotes gratitude for the sustenance it provides. Let each meal be a moment of mindfulness and self-care, bringing joy and contentment to your daily routine.

Hydration and Mood: The Surprising Link Between Water Intake and Emotions

Water, the elixir of life, not only quenches your physical thirst but also plays a crucial role in regulating your mood. Dehydration has been linked to increased feelings of anxiety, fatigue, and irritability. Studies suggest that even mild dehydration can negatively impact cognitive function and mood stability.

Ensuring adequate hydration levels throughout the day can enhance your overall well-being, leading to improved focus, concentration, and a more positive outlook on life. By simply sipping on water regularly, you are not just nourishing your body but also uplifting your spirits. Remember, staying hydrated is not just about maintaining physical health; it’s about nurturing your emotional wellness too.

The Power of Superfoods: Incorporating Mood-Boosting Ingredients Into Your Diet

Superfoods are nutrient-dense ingredients that can positively impact your mood and overall well-being. Incorporating these powerhouse foods into your daily diet can provide a natural boost to your mental health. Foods like berries, leafy greens, fatty fish, and nuts are rich in antioxidants, omega-3 fatty acids, and vitamins that support brain function and help regulate neurotransmitters linked to mood.

By including superfoods in your meals, you not only enhance your physical health but also uplift your spirits. Imagine starting your day with a vibrant smoothie bowl packed with colorful fruits and seeds, or enjoying a nourishing salad loaded with avocado and quinoa for lunch. These delicious choices not only nourish your body but also feed your soul, leaving you feeling energized and emotionally balanced.

Meal Planning for Better Mental Health: Strategies for Creating Balanced and Nourishing Plates

Creating balanced and nourishing plates is essential for supporting optimal mental health. Start by incorporating a variety of colorful fruits and vegetables to ensure you are getting a wide range of vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. Aim to include lean proteins such as chicken, fish, or tofu to support neurotransmitter function and stabilize blood sugar levels.

Additionally, don’t forget to include healthy fats like avocados, nuts, and olive oil in your meals. These fats are crucial for brain health and can help improve cognitive function. Lastly, consider portion control and mindful eating practices to savor each bite and appreciate the nourishment you are providing your body. By taking the time to plan balanced meals, you are not only supporting your physical health but also enhancing your mood and overall well-being.

Building Healthy Habits: Small Changes That Can Make a Big Difference

When it comes to improving your mood through diet, incorporating small but consistent healthy habits can have a profound impact on your overall well-being. Start by adding colorful fruits and vegetables to each meal, aiming for a variety of nutrients that support brain health. Swap sugary snacks for handfuls of nuts or seeds rich in omega-3 fatty acids, known for their mood-boosting properties.

Additionally, prioritize mindful eating by savoring each bite and paying attention to hunger cues. Setting a regular eating schedule can help stabilize blood sugar levels and prevent mood swings. Remember, building healthy habits is about progress, not perfection—celebrate every positive choice you make towards nourishing both your body and mind.

As we conclude our exploration of how certain foods can impact our mood, it becomes evident that our dietary choices play a crucial role in our emotional well-being. By understanding the intricate relationship between what we eat and how we feel, we empower ourselves to make informed decisions for a healthier mind and body.

By incorporating nutrient-rich foods, practicing mindful eating habits, and prioritizing hydration, we can cultivate a positive environment within ourselves that promotes mental clarity and emotional stability. Remember that small changes in your diet can lead to significant improvements in your overall mood and quality of life. Embrace the power of food as a tool for nourishing not just your body, but also your soul.

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Finding Joy and Strength in Your Recovery Journey This Holiday Season

The holiday season can be a time of joy and celebration, but for those who are on a recovery journey, it can also bring unique challenges. Whether you are recovering from addiction, mental health issues, or any other form of personal struggle, the holiday season may intensify feelings of loneliness, triggers, and emotional vulnerability. However, it’s important to remember that amidst these challenges lies an opportunity for profound growth and transformation.

This holiday season can also be a time of deep reflection and healing for those on a recovery journey. As the year draws to a close, it presents an opportunity to look inward, assess our progress, and find solace in the process of growth and transformation. It is during this seasonal transition that we have the chance to embrace our vulnerabilities, acknowledge our achievements, and pave the way for a brighter future.

Amidst the glittering lights and festive decorations, we can use this time as a catalyst for self-discovery. It provides us with moments of respite from the demands of daily life, allowing us to delve deeper into our emotions and understand ourselves on a profound level. Through contemplation and introspection, we can gain valuable insights into our recovery journey—recognizing both its challenges and triumphs.

The Power of Gratitude

During this season and looking back on this year, it can be easy to focus on what is lacking or the challenges we face. However, cultivating an attitude of gratitude has the power to transform our perspective and ignite a sense of joy and strength within us. Gratitude is not merely about being thankful for the good things in life; it is about finding appreciation in every moment, even during adversity.

When we consciously practice gratitude, it shifts our attention from what is wrong to what is right. It allows us to recognize the blessings that often go unnoticed and helps us find solace in small victories. Gratitude has a profound impact on our mental and emotional well-being, as studies have shown that regularly practicing gratitude can lead to increased happiness levels, improved self-esteem, reduced stress, and strengthened relationships.

Navigating Triggers: Finding Strength in the Face of Challenges

Navigating triggers during the holiday season can be particularly challenging. The festivities and gatherings that surround this time of year often come hand-in-hand with reminders of past struggles and potential pitfalls. However, it is important to remember that within these challenges lies an opportunity for growth and resilience.

As you encounter triggers, whether they be certain people, places, or situations, it is crucial to approach them with a mindset of grace and determination. Recognize that acknowledging these triggers is a sign of strength rather than weakness. By embracing your vulnerability and confronting these challenges head-on, you open up doors for personal growth and newfound strength.

Building a Supportive Network: Surrounding Yourself with Love and Understanding

Having a strong support system can make all the difference during this season. Building a network of individuals who are compassionate, understanding, and genuinely invested in your well-being is crucial. Surrounding yourself with love and understanding provides an uplifting environment that fosters growth and healing.

Seek out friends and family members who offer unwavering support, people who not only empathize with your struggles but also celebrate your victories. Remember, it is not just about the number of people in your network but the quality of connections you establish. Choose individuals who uplift you, inspire you to be the best version of yourself, and remind you that there is hope and joy on this journey.

Embracing a Joyful and Empowered Recovery Journey

In the midst of the holiday season, as we navigate the complexities of our recovery journey, it is essential to remember that joy and strength can be found in even the smallest moments. By cultivating a sense of gratitude for our progress and surrounding ourselves with a supportive network, we empower ourselves to overcome challenges and protect our mental and emotional well-being. Embracing imperfections while celebrating milestones reminds us of how far we have come. As we reflect on this journey towards healing, may we find in the present moment the potential for growth and the true Joy of the this season.

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